The need to have positive mindset is important. I’m trying to open one eye, close one eye towards some matters. That’s mean be more BO CHUP and don’t dwell on a particular incident or matter for too long. Grumble to friends about it and get it over ASAP.
Well, all of us have our shares of problem and feel the need to talk to friends, but doing it routinely and venting about insignificant things will just irritate people. I saw how some people becoming more and more negative and keep on grumbling day after day about every single thing. The grumbling can be endless if there is a negative mindset. Having negative mindset makes a person feeling tensed, creating more anxiety too. Their behavior is like a mirror image to me. That why I tell myself try not to follow their footstep as there’s no point making your own life miserable by digging the misery hole deeper and deeper and walloping in sorrow. Also, being around with such people are like toxic in your life. Thus try to avoid such toxic influence in your life as it just drags you down as well!
It’s true that life is not fair.
Some people can have a better life than others. So what? Be contented with what you have. I don’t see the point comparing my life to theirs. Example, if a friend had the ability to buy a car, I would be happy for her and not jealous of her. But to some, perhaps they would make some remarks: like “wow, so rich ah” The thing is everyone can afford to buy too. It’s only if they want or not. It’s like having priority on your checklist. Some would spend on food or on gadgets or on luxury goods or on travelling.
Life is short. Just enjoy life and be positive and choose the way you want to live your life.
1 comment:
YEAH! i dont wan to fall into a deeper hole!
need a change with job.
Hope Jul faster come! last paper! =)
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